May 22, 2017
Making Forgiveness Easier
Forgiveness is easy, when compared to the correct subject.
Life is relative. What is easy for some is very difficult for others. Math is a great example. My two boys with autism love math. It is very easy for them to grasp and compute. They both took harder math classes in high school than I ever did in college. Oh yeah, I did not take ANY math class in college because trigonometry in high school was enough for me. I muddled through that class after endless hours of studying. My sons breeze through those calculations without effort. I wish I had that ability.
My boys roll their eyes at me, not understanding how I can’t grasp the simple concepts.
In contrast, I enjoy writing. It can be fun, even a welcomed challenge to me. For my boys, writing is downright painful. They’d rather do their Saturday chores than write. They will even do MY chores to procrastinate that tedious task of putting words on paper. Once they sit down to write, the dead would complain about my kids’ groans that permeate the air. My sons equate writing to a medieval torture, and should be outlawed.
I roll my eyes at them, not understanding how they can’t grasp the simple concepts.
Then there’s forgiveness. Admitting we are wrong is a cinch, and proclaiming our bad habits is preferred! We can do those easily instead of letting go of a grudge against someone who has hurt us. How can we not see that forgiveness lets us live free from angst?
Christ may be rolling his eyes as to why we can’t grasp the simple concept.
To make it easier, just compare forgiveness to a dreaded issue, like math or writing. Maybe then we can take those baby steps and find it easier to forgive.