Jun 15, 2016
Navigating Health Care with a Big Family
I’ve been on the phone all day today with medical facilities and our insurance company over my son’s broken wrist back in February, another son’s asthma attack last month, and my upcoming birth this October. It’s all so convoluted, and my head is spinning!! It would be different if the “rules” weren’t changing all the time. What cost me X last year (or last baby) costs me 2X or even 3X now! Example: for my last son’s circumcision two years ago, the hospital billed my insurance company 35-HUNDRED DOLLARS. That did not include the OB’s charge of $650.
“I’m sorry Mrs. Anderson. That’s the contracted amount between our company and the providers. There’s nothing you can do about it.”
There’s nothing I can do about it.
Humph. I love a good game of Triple Dog Dare.
I’ll tell you what I’m going to do.
Come October, when my baby’s due, I’m having a home birth. My first in eight pregnancies. Not only will I get to have the lights dimmed and no IV stuck in my hand (a real bummer when you’re on your hands and knees laboring), but I’ll get to stay in the tub until the baby is born. That’s an awesome thing when you have back labor every time. I won’t have to be strapped to the table and monitored every hour, and I won’t be made to feel I’m some weirdo with three heads when I say I do this naturally and this is my eighth, thank you very much.
And there will be one…1… ONE bill at the end of it all. (God willing everything goes well and healthy, of course.)
And just in case it’s a boy, my homebirth midwife knows a good rabbi who will circumcise (even if we are Christian!) for a fraction of the price we paid last time.
We have 30 days after the baby is due to make another change, too. This “major life event” gives us an out to our “great” insurance. We have been in touch with MediShare, a Christian health sharing group. My brother and his family have been using it for over a year now, and have nothing but good things to say about it. So we are going to give it a whirl. If you are members of something similar, I would love to hear your feedback, especially if you have a large family.
The hospital is going to lose our money.
The insurance company is going to lose our money.
We all need to take charge of our health immediately. We have been blessed as a family to be in generally great health, but sustaining that is going to be essential as we move forward through these “labor pains” that is our health care system in America today. Not that we are the poster family for healthy eating, but comparatively I think we eat very well. Our kids get lots of exercise outside, and we keep t.v. and video games to a minimum. We are all going to need make sacrifices, especially in how we eat, to keep ourselves and our family out of the doctor’s office.